Survival and Astronomy pages are in the archive, I will get round to setting them up properly but time is against me lately!
That's what this site was originally about but now days there's been a change.. I'm going to devote this blog to my actuall ruminations about life and marriage... Particularly being married to a second born only child as a fifth born child from a large family.
Tue, 19 Nov 2024 14:33:21 GMT Simple mental health
Wrongs
Denial ? Consistent denial is psychologically harmful.
Blame - Blaming provides a way of devaluing others (bring you down to their level ? not the same as explaining).
Blame ? You give power to the one you blame ? You are allowing them to define and dictate your happiness and wellbeing.
Projection - feelings directed towards the self are displaced towards other people (Because I?m feeling this way you must be doing it to me).
Masking ? Authoritative Parents (changes ?faces? depending on who they are with, ?telephone voice? is an everyday example).
Conflict Avoidance - works short-term, long term it reinforces our belief that we should be afraid and maintains our anxiety and fear.
Hypocrisy - What you say and what you do don't match up (high emotional content - I want this to happen then complains when it happens).
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Fri, 15 Nov 2024 17:56:12 GMT The modern woman
You are the epitome of a modern woman. You have no emotional control, no self control, you eat too much and don't move around enough, you are disrespectful in many ways on many levels. You consume and consume and consume, spending hours at a time finger fucking your phone or staring at the telly or youtube, you don't even write your own texts any more instead choosing to use ai. You take and take and take and give very litte in return. Your choice in clothing makes you look worse, you have no style, no grace and not much going for you aside from your pussy. You lack femininity of any kind, no compassion, no caring, no nurturing, no supportiveness. You fail to take responsibility for your actions choosing instead to blame everyone else for situations you created or made worse. You can't be lead in anyway either by kindness, threat or suggestion - you HAVE to argue and fight over every triviality. You express the same emotional traits as teenagers with hissy fits, temper tantrums and veiled scarcastic digs. You have a negative outlook on life and concrete solid, rigid way of thinking. Always why you can't do this or that never how do I acheive that. You turn every choice we make as a couple into a pathetic power struggle for the sake of it. You consistantly play the ever worsening victim with no real evidence of actually being victimised. The chasmic cognitive dissonace you display on the average day is beyond comprehension. You are incapable of examining the world and yourself in an honest and impartial way. You cast traditional male "wants" as misogynistic and in the 20 years I've know you have not improved a single one of the flaws in your character for one simple reason - you can't admit that you have any flaws. You see your father and husband as bullies but only because you are so weak that you are incapable of actually forming an intelectual response to any conflict that arrises instead choosing to express your "feelings" by throwing temper tantrums. You communication level is that of a small child - conversation not going your way? - throw a temper tantram and run off. You just spent 20 minutes arguing about the wrong "Amy". You and your ilk consitantly cast men as bad guys but sadly you don't even know you are doing it. You turn every attempt at communicating issue I have into a full blown argument using ad hominem attacks instead of sorting out the issue or telling me you're not interested. In said arguments you give the impression that you hate the ground I walk on yet still that very night you'll want a cuddle. I have some very important information for you in an fruitless attempt to undo some of the programming you've received from the media and other women:
Men don't like masculine women.
Men don't want drama.
Men don't want to fight and argue in a constant unneccasary power strugle over what color to paint the bathroom.
Men don't care how much money you make.
Men don't want to live with a woman that constantly plays the victim.
Men don't like mean, cold hearted women.
Men don't like immature and mentally unstable women (no matter what the excuse).
Men don't like bossy women.
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Tue, 12 Nov 2024 12:44:02 GMT High Value Man / Woman
What does this mean? What does high value actually mean?
For a woman she means a man with a high net worth - IE he is a wealthy person. His health and boundaries, values and plans, communication skills.. They mean nothing!
For men, it's a different story. He means a moralistic woman with values. One who is feminine, one who isn't a slave to their emotions, one who can deal with a conflict with understanding and kindness.
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Fri, 01 Nov 2024 11:48:11 GMT When you realise your wife....
...that has been acusing you of being a narcissistic gaslighter (because thats what everone that doesn't agree with a woman is these days) for the last 3 years is actually herself... A narcissistic gaslighter!
Are you telling me thaty all there is really left to talk about with my spouse if I don't want to fight with them is the weather and the change of season or that a local road might be closed this weekend??
That is THE biggest sign your spouse is a narcissist. When you stop to think about it it's ALWAYS been like this. Right from the start. You could never talk to them about anything deeper than a puddle without it being your fault or turning into a power struggle or a fight while they say it's you that started the fight! They feed off of the emotional content so don't engage - let them have their paddy and walk out!
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Wed, 30 Oct 2024 09:04:59 GMT Mental Health
I hear alot of people complaining about depression and mental health these days but when questioned they don't seem to under stand simple cause and effect. Here's a good example.
Your life is now, this very moment, today! You are inheriting this life from you yesterday and you are the custodian of this life for you tomorrow! If you, as the custodian of this life now, act like an arshole. The guy tomorrow will have a hard time!
It's that simple - understand that and all of your problems will go away. Tthat and one other thing:
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Tue, 15 Oct 2024 13:59:20 GMT We're making _INSERT THING THAT IS ABOUT TO GET A WHOLE LOT HARDER HERE_ easier for you!
We're making it easier for you to login / get to your online stuff / check what's chewing your battery on your device / access your bank online or via your phone!
When was the last time you read something like this on a a website / app / peice of software only to find that it's not really easier, it's only easier to do those things if you use that website / software / app THE WAY THEY TELL YOU TO..? And have you ever asked why they are forcing you to do this? Information, they want access to your information. Every company you deal with wants to know what device you are using, where you are (try googleing geo ip), what other information they can glean from your device or email client. That app they gave you with your new car? It's a gateway for them. When you are driving around your car records (via the built in GPS) everywhere you go then when you connect the car to the manufacturers app it uses your data connection to upload all it's recorded to their servers.
It's NEVER to make your life easier!
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Tue, 01 Oct 2024 19:23:47 GMT What to say to emotional people???
I'm not responsible for your feelings.
I'm not going to do what you want.
I don't agree with you.
I need time to myself.
I've already made my decision.
That's not acceptable behavior.
I trust my own judgment.
I don't need your approval.
I deserve respect.
This conversation is over.
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Sun, 29 Sep 2024 23:07:42 GMT Dear Government
Dear Government,
Would you please fix the roads that I'm alredy taxed for you to fix so I'm not damaging my car that I pay both annual tax and fuel tax on just so that I can drive it. Remeber also that I was taxed on the money I earned to buy that car that is now parked on the drive of my house that you also tax along with my electricity, gas and half of the stuff I shop for on a weekly basis.
All the while my neigbours sit on their arses all day smoking weed and drinking beer on the money you tax me on!
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Tue, 24 Sep 2024 15:00:26 GMT Some good life rules to abide by
Honest conflict has more long term value than dishonest harmony!
Nuanced Truth (Speak the truth but try to be nice -- i's not always easy!
I am fallible!
Confront the behaviour NOT the person!
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Fri, 20 Sep 2024 20:24:17 GMT Stress Stacking
Women stack stress on men in multiple ways.
If he does not calmly manage all of it while she attacks verbally, emotionally, socially, financially, and even physically, his lack of control under her constant assaults will be punished by her ally. The state, as well as whatever social circle she has. It seems like society expects men to be a punching bag for a woman's emotions. If a woman is pissed at him, the kids, or life circumstances, then it is acceptable for her to put the man in 'the doghouse', kick him out of the house, disrupt his sleep, scream in his face, or even assault him.All the while the man MUST stay calm and stoic. Not descending to her level of emotional content becasue when he does that, violence WILL ensue and no matter what he has been through to get to this point once his loses control of his 2 emotions and lashes out E V E R Y T H I N G is HIS fault.
I speak from experience!
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