Stress Stacking
Women stack stress on men in multiple ways.
If he does not calmly manage all of it while she attacks verbally, emotionally, socially, financially, and even physically, his lack of control under her constant assaults will be punished by her ally. The state, as well as whatever social circle she has. It seems like society expects men to be a punching bag for a woman's emotions. If a woman is pissed at him, the kids, or life circumstances, then it is acceptable for her to put the man in 'the doghouse', kick him out of the house, disrupt his sleep, scream in his face, or even assault him.All the while the man MUST stay calm and stoic. Not descending to her level of emotional content becasue when he does that, violence WILL ensue and no matter what he has been through to get to this point once his loses control of his 2 emotions and lashes out E V E R Y T H I N G is HIS fault.
I speak from experience!
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