My Dating Profile
I'm 54, 6'3", broad-shouldered, not gym-sculptured. I'm more comfortable in my own skin than I've ever been. I run my own businesses, keep myself physically active, and value peace over chaos. I don't play games (unless its computer games, I'm fine with that), I don't chase. I'm not looking for drama, intensity, or constant contact I do value steady communication it makes me feel chosen. I'm looking for something steady, grown-up, and mutually chosen. Two people who enjoy each other's company and choose to spend time together.
What I'm looking for is simple. One woman. One or two evenings a week. Good food, good conversation, proper physical connection, wake up slow, then spend a day together out and about. Dates, maybe lunch or a zoo or a walk. Then get on with life until next time. No drama. No performance. Just two adults choosing each other. I like conversation, competence, intelligence, humor, quiet evenings, physical closeness, and space to breathe. I believe in loyalty, direct communication, and personal responsibility. Life is complicated enough, relationships don't have to be.
What I Offer
- Loyalty. If I'm with you, I'm with you.
- Physical affection, strong chemistry, and intimacy.
- Direct, honest communication. I say what I mean, mean what I say.
- Emotional depth (even if I don't always show it perfectly).
- Stability, financially and emotionally.
- Competence. I fix things. I build things. I handle things. I'll stand beside you if you need it.
- Reliability, if I say I'll do something, it gets done.
- Intelligence and curiosity.
- Protection and support without control.
- Space, I don't need to own or micromanage your time.
What I'm Looking For
- Loyalty. If you're with me, you're with me.
- A woman who communicates directly.
- Emotional maturity over perfection.
- Cares and loves generously, not strategically.
- Able to take responsibility without turning everything into a battle
- Physical chemistry and sexual loyalty.
- Independence, you have your own life and world, I have mine.
- Someone who wants connection, not control or constant conflict.
- Calm over chaos. I value calm more than excitement.
This Probably Won't Work If…
- You see relationships as competition instead of partnership.
- Being right matters more to you than being close.
- Disagreements turn into scorekeeping instead of solutions.
- You struggle to take responsibility without becoming defensive.
- You’re unsure what you want but prefer to keep things vague rather than say so.
I live a full life already. I don't want chaos, competition, or confusion. I want calm, loyal, connection, and a woman who knows who she is. If that resonates with you, we'll be fine. I don't give everything to everyone. But if it's right, you won't have to wonder where you stand with me.